tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2264883609375228715.post6303796467288489514..comments2024-03-20T04:09:07.685-04:00Comments on I am a product of surrogacy: Is it a Right to have be able to have childrenjakiam83http://www.blogger.com/profile/00535452453931609688noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2264883609375228715.post-43899396027088314652020-01-01T07:26:10.837-05:002020-01-01T07:26:10.837-05:00Urgent need Female for (egg donation) /(kidney don...Urgent need Female for (egg donation) /(kidney donors) with the sum of $500,000.00,whatsapp +91 9945317569<br />Email: jainhospitalcare@gmail.com<br /><br /><br />Urgent need Female for (egg donation) /(kidney donors) with the sum of $500,000.00,whatsapp +91 9945317569<br />Email: jainhospitalcare@gmail.com<br /><br />Urgent need Female for (egg donation) /(kidney donors) with the sum of $500,000.00,whatsapp +91 9945317569<br />Email: jainhospitalcare@gmail.com<br /><br />Urgent need Female for (egg donation) /(kidney donors) with the sum of $500,000.00,whatsapp +91 9945317569<br />Email: jainhospitalcare@gmail.com<br /><br />Urgent need Female for (egg donation) /(kidney donors) with the sum of $500,000.00,whatsapp +91 9945317569<br />Email: jainhospitalcare@gmail.com<br /><br />Urgent need Female for (egg donation) /(kidney donors) with the sum of $500,000.00,whatsapp +91 9945317569<br />Email: jainhospitalcare@gmail.com<br /><br />Urgent need Female for (egg donation) /(kidney donors) with the sum of $500,000.00,whatsapp +91 9945317569<br />Email: jainhospitalcare@gmail.com<br /><br />Urgent need Female for (egg donation) /(kidney donors) with the sum of $500,000.00,whatsapp +91 9945317569<br />Email: jainhospitalcare@gmail.com<br /><br />Urgent need Female for (egg donation) /(kidney donors) with the sum of $500,000.00,whatsapp +91 9945317569<br />Email: jainhospitalcare@gmail.com<br /><br />Urgent need Female for (egg donation) /(kidney donors) with the sum of $500,000.00,whatsapp +91 9945317569<br />Email: jainhospitalcare@gmail.comAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2264883609375228715.post-77506304111796621032014-09-04T11:21:44.542-04:002014-09-04T11:21:44.542-04:00Jessica,
I understand the perspective you are com...Jessica,<br /><br />I understand the perspective you are coming from. Please don't take my comments as dismissing you and your perspective. My infertility has nothing to do with your being donor conceived and vice versa.<br /><br />While I appreciate your suggestion, please understand that my desire and the void left by my infertility is to become a parent not a legalized babysitter which is what Foster Parenting is.<br /><br />Also, some advice when you are interacting with someone who is infertile where you are letting it be known you don't approve of third party reproduction never suggest an alternative such as Adoption or Legalized Babysitting. It's like someone suggesting to you that you should just be happy you're a live and should appreciate the family that you have. You can let your opinion be known but if asked what you would do if you were them a "I'm sorry for your loss. I don't know what I would do if I were in your shoes." response instead.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2264883609375228715.post-68746952082203921972014-06-17T13:16:56.216-04:002014-06-17T13:16:56.216-04:00I just went and visited your blog, and I do feel f...I just went and visited your blog, and I do feel for your difficulties with infertility. Just as a counter thought, you mention this void in life due to lack of children. Many of us who are donor conceived have a void as well, our biological parents. I can't tell you how many discussions go on about DNA testing and which sites to use to have the best chance at finding either their biological parent or half siblings. <br />I commend all the volunteer work you do with children. Have you ever considered being a foster parent? A friend of mine has legally adopted two foster boys that she was housing. With all the good you do for children, I'm sure a child would be lucky to have you on their side. jakiam83https://www.blogger.com/profile/00535452453931609688noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2264883609375228715.post-61347501207270374362014-06-17T13:12:11.566-04:002014-06-17T13:12:11.566-04:00I don't know if you mean me in particular, but...I don't know if you mean me in particular, but I'm not a parent. I'm saying this from the viewpoint of someone who was created via surrogacy. jakiam83https://www.blogger.com/profile/00535452453931609688noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2264883609375228715.post-69418860393518544032014-06-03T11:18:36.394-04:002014-06-03T11:18:36.394-04:00I think it's very easy for someone who is a pa...I think it's very easy for someone who is a parent to tell another person or couple who is physically unable to conceive a child that they don't have the right to become a parent.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2264883609375228715.post-24520568051654865142013-08-10T11:48:13.428-04:002013-08-10T11:48:13.428-04:00I completely agree with you. I think there are so ...I completely agree with you. I think there are so many flaws with the adoption system. I don't mean to trivialize what adopted people go through because I know the trauma, and corruptness with that system is quite real. What I'm trying to point out to people considering using 3rd party donor conception is that we shouldn't intentionally create a class of people who we inflict this on. I believe that both our communities deserve to know who our biological parents are, anonymity should be taken out of the system of adoption. A right to our true medical records. I just visited your blog, and my heart goes out to you! I think it's so important for adoptees to voice their feelings to make some progress on adoptee's rights. Good luck in your journeyjakiam83https://www.blogger.com/profile/00535452453931609688noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2264883609375228715.post-32357166743694829142013-08-10T06:29:38.434-04:002013-08-10T06:29:38.434-04:00Adopted persons feel much the same way you do. Ou...Adopted persons feel much the same way you do. Our fate is decided by the adults in our lives. We do not want to be separated from our natural parents, and are not always happy to have been given up. Many infant adoptions are unnecessary. Adoption agencies make money by selling newborns, and they need a steady supply. Young vulnerable women are told that their newborns will be better off with a richer. more stable family. Many times that is not the case. Adoption does not offer a better life, just a different one. <br /><br />We were both products of a money driven system that treats people as commodities. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com